June 1, 2012

Anonymous asked: I recently graduated college and have found work at a place that requires a suit to be worn 5 days per week. Having never worked in this environment, I don't really know too much about suits. Is it typical to wear a different suit each day of the week? Additionally, what colors are are most typical of a professional wardrobe? I've got a charcoal suit already, but am looking to pick up a few others before beginning work. Thanks so much!

Blue or navy and black are essential. A nice oligarch olive or brown works well too. You can wear the same suit consecutively but eventually people will notice. Draw their attention away with different colors and ties.

May 30, 2012

Anonymous asked: Upon your suggestion, and in anticipation of upcoming events, I've re-read The Great Gatsby. I feel that I, along with many men in today's American culture, feel a close kinship to Jay Gatsby--more specifically a strong sense of opportunities missed. Do you have advice on how to move past painful mistakes involving business, family, or, in Jay's case, romance? How can one avoid the fateful truth of: "So we beat on, boats against the current, borne back ceaselessly into the past"?

Take Fitzgerald’s advice with a twist. Beat on, against the current, ceaselessly into the future. Perseverance is a test of a man’s true character.

May 24, 2012

Anonymous asked: I'm on the road a great deal of the time for work. Does the American Gentlemam have any advice for trying to maintain a relationship for road warriors?

Communication is key. Talk on the phone. Text. Write long emails. Stay involved in her life. Keep her involved in yours. Then when you get home pick up where you left off.

May 23, 2012

The Great Gatsby

May 22, 2012

Anonymous asked: I have a great paying job for the summer doing administrative work for a hospital that I gained through a family friend, but I also have an opportunity to intern for my local Congressman a few days a week. The internship is unpaid and it's too late to get college credit for the internship this summer. Would it be wrong of me to turn down this opportunity simply because of money since the Congressman's office has been so accommodating for me?

Is it ever bad to have “Congressional Intern” on your resume. Think long term. Do you need the money now? Can you get by on less (we all can). Seems like an easy choice, except I hate working for free.

May 16, 2012
What Defines an American Gentleman?

HOW WOULD YOU DEFINE AN AMERICAN GENTLEMAN? 


American Gentleman is teaming up with Buffalo Jackson Trading Co. to define An American Gentleman. Over the next month we are looking for your best definition. Submit your entry by commenting here, on Facebook or on Twitter. We will take the best entries and vote on them together and paste them into a definition that will become a LIMITED EDITION PRINT Pocket Tee for sale exclusively through our two websites. Enter today for your chance to define what truly makes a man an American Gentleman.

May 15, 2012

Anonymous asked: My father's wedding is coming up this weekend, and as his best-man, I would like to come up with an authentic, memorable, and moving speech. What can you recommend for an aspiring gentleman to obtain such a goal? Are there any pieces of literature or American icons to draw inspiration from?

Speak from the heart, use personal experience and stories of him and his bride. Tell the crowd why he’s a good man and why he will make a great husband for her. Be genuine and honest, heartfelt always is a surefire toast. 

May 15, 2012
Lesson No. 144: It is When, Not If.

Think of your goals in terms of when not if. You want to be a self-made man, a success. You want to make a name for yourself. The road is long and arduous. Envision where you want to be and tell yourself that it will happen. Make it happen, don’t wait for it to fall in your lap. 

May 14, 2012

Anonymous asked: What is you go to drink at the bar? Beer is nice for college parties or guys night and I know you've said not to mix drinks but I'm an Old Fashioned guy. Thoughts?

Nothing wrong with a good sturdy beer. Graduate from the natty light to something with some actual flavor. Or when all else fails grab a sturdy glass and fill it with scotch.

May 14, 2012

Anonymous asked: If financially capable, what kind of automobile does the American Gentleman sport? Pickup truck? SUV? Sedan? Domestic or Import?

I drive an American made SUV. All of my vehicles have been domestically made.

May 14, 2012

Anonymous asked: Another explanation of a gentleman is Sigma Alpha Epsilon's creed - The True Gentleman. There wasn't enough space to post it here for you.

Email it to me and I’ll post it. Americangentlemanblog@gmail.com

May 8, 2012
"Remember, Amateurs built the Ark. Professionals built the Titanic."

— Anonymous 

May 7, 2012
A short explanation of what it takes to be a gentleman in the 21st century— from a college student procrastinating during finals.

To be a gentleman of the 21st century, one must begin with good morals. A man without morals is not a man at all; rather, he is a savage. A gentleman must have a sense of propriety. A true gentleman respects the different cultures and customs of those surrounding him. In this ever-changing, interconnected world, a man will face people who differ from his traditions. A true gentleman is able to react to the situations that confront him quickly and appropriately. That being said, a gentleman has integrity. A gentleman must not sacrifice moral for the sake of having propriety. A gentleman has the integrity to stand true to his morals. A gentleman cherishes and respects honor; whether it’s his own honor, his opponents honor, honoring tradition, or honoring history. A man without honor is a man that cannot trusted. A gentleman takes everything in moderation. A man without moderation is a man that is weak. The overindulgence of anything creates this weakness. A gentleman is ambitious. Without ambition, it is impossible to be a true gentleman. A gentleman always tries to be his best or the best at everything he does. Lastly, a gentleman practices consistency in the realms of these aspects. He endeavors to be consistent in his morals, propriety, integrity, honor, moderation, and ambition. For without the consistency of these, he is not a gentleman at all.    


May 5, 2012
Happy Derby Day!

It’s time again to enjoy the 138th Annual Kentucky Derby. Pour yourself a mint julep, adjust your tie and make sure she’s got the perfect hat as we enjoy the sport of Gentlemen and Kings. Happy Derby Day! 

May 5, 2012

How to make a Mint Julep.